Friday, September 12, 2014

taking in stories

It's crazy to think it's been more than a month already. There is a lot of HIV in LA. I have spent a lot of time listening. I have taken in a lot of stories.
(billboard on my drive home each day)

The stories start to run together. It's not that they are the same - it's just that there are so many:

A woman who was diagnosed while she was pregnant. She told her oldest child but still doesn't know how to tell the young ones. 

A father who didn't want to spread his cough to his baby girl, so he came to the ER to get checked. Now he asks if it's safe to hug her ever again. (yes, it is.)

A woman who was raped while she was crossing the border. Her child and family are still in Central America; she hasn't told them what happened. 

A grandmother who needed a blood transfusion years ago. 
A traveler from Europe who felt sick during his vacation.
A rapper with big dreams who ended up homeless and addicted to drugs.

People who have fought HIV for years, and people who found out only minutes ago. 
People in good relationships and bad ones. 
People who sleep on the streets and people who live in mansions.
People who laugh and cry and fight for life with a resilience I'll never know. 
A lot of the time, the sorrow of these stories is overwhelming. And despite huge advances in medicine, having HIV is difficult - whether it is the hurt or shame of how it was acquired, or the discrimination that those with HIV still face, or isolation from family, or struggling to break free from the addiction that led to becoming infected, or being unable to work due to illness, or simply having to remember to take medicine every day from now on. I'm still figuring out how to take it all in, how to keep listening, how to keep offering hope. 

"Compassion asks us to go where it hurts, 
to enter into the places of pain, 
to share in brokenness, fear, confusion, and anguish." 
-Henri Nouwen

Monday, August 18, 2014

new job, new pager

I started being on-call for the emergency department this weekend. LA County Hospital(LAC+USC) has a HUGE emergency department. I am told they see 180,000 patients each year (compare to Allegheny General Hospital ED which sees 38,000 patients per year, and Temple that sees 130,000 per year). The wait to be seen ranges from 12-36 hours.
Every patient who comes into the ED receives HIV testing (unless they opt out). When someone is newly found to have HIV, I get called to go talk with the person. Sometimes this involves telling them their diagnosis if no one has told them already; mostly it involves talking about what that diagnosis means and connecting them with our clinic. I think I am a bad luck charm becaues I was called about 4 new patients in the first 24 hours.

Not everyone comes in suspecting that they have HIV; in fact, most don't. They come in with coughs and headaches that have gone on too long, only to find the underlying thing causing their symptoms is not only HIV but AIDS.

My first patient (details changed to protect privacy) was younger than me, but life had been unfair. He'd been living on the streets, earning money however he could - even if that meant doing things he didn't want to do. Drugs made doing these things easier. He suspected for a while that he might have HIV, but couldn't find the courage to be tested until now. After 20 hours of waiting, he had his answer. So at 5am, we sat and talked in a quiet corner of the chronically-overcrowded ED. He spilled out stories of his life; of trauma; of how he wants to live now. We scheduled an appointment at our clinic. He'll start treatment. He'll probably be fine. Or at least his HIV will. Most of what he carries, I can't fix. But I can keep hoping for him.  
(view of downtown LA from LAC+USC)

Saturday, July 26, 2014

the i-don't-knows

i have answered "i don't know" no less than 286 times this month when asked details about moving.

some have been logistical questions that finally have answers:
where will you be living?
monterey hills (east of downtown LA)
have you packed?
finally, yes.
what will you be doing?
it's an HIV corrections fellowship.
i'll be at LA County Hospital's HIV clinic, the LA county jail, and a clinic on Skid Row.
yes, Skid Row is a real place.
yes, I said the jail.
yes, my mom is nervous.
will you miss pittsburgh?

a lot of questions are more complex, and i don't have answers. i have no idea what to expect. i don't know what it will be like working in a jail. i don't know what my patients will be like or how i will fill my days. i know data and statistics about hiv and jail and homelessness, but i don't know anyone's stories yet so i feel at a loss.

the good news is, i've done a lot of things before where i haven't known anything other than facts:

i moved to swaziland knowing only the perinatal hiv rate (42.6%) and the number of orphans (100,000 of a national population of one million). what i found were amazing friends like zandi and jabu who taught me what it is to hope.

i worked in alaska for a month at a native alaskan hospital. i knew rates of alcoholism and domestic violence were horribly high, but it wasn't until bruised women shared with me their stories did i start to understand.

so now i start this next adventure with all of my not-knowing, and am waiting for the stories to begin.

"instructions for living a life:
pay attention.
be astonished.
tell about it."
-mary oliver

Tuesday, July 8, 2014

the end of residency

over and over, i'm breathing out thankfulness.
i made it.

3 years ago, i was assigned five patients.
i didn't know how to enter orders in the computer.
my white coat was still white.
i thought i would only do this for a year.
instead, i fell in love with taking care of patients and decided to stay.

i couldn't leave the place of listening to human stories in exchange for shaping global health policy. i know policy touches communities, but i needed to touch the person in front of me. at the time, it seemed like a huge decision to give up hopkins for a general hospital in a post-industrial city. but i knew i had to stay.

being healthly intern  year was grace; without that year of health, i would have left clinical medicine and entered the world of public health.

it has been anything but easy. four hospital admissions. countless infections. monthly infusions. my sister over and over reminded me "just keep swimming."

so i kept swimming, upstream like the salmon, and i've ended up at beautiful over and over: working in alaska for a month. watching a friend get married in india. listening and being humbled by the patients who trust me with their stories.

and the same prayer i have breathed out countless times over the past three years, whispered under my breath in airplanes taking off over delhi and sitka, to cries from hospital beds when planes left without me:

blessed are you, o lord, who has kept us alive and sustained us,
who has brought us whole to this moment.

Wednesday, July 2, 2014

residency in iPhone photos

This is where I have spent the last 3 years:
The views from the hospital aren't that bad:

I spent most my time trying to figure out which pager was beeping and waiting on people to return my pages:

I survived off of cafeteria food and graham crackers stolen from nurse's stations:
I looked at way too many of these:
I rarely saw the call room (note the unused bed):
I made sure the important orders got in first:
Only once did I ever see the emergency room empty:
There were early morning signouts, greasy post-call breakfasts, and rare chances to sit in the resident lounge:

I had lots of opportunites to wear Indian clothes:
I tried my hardest to avoid being a patient: 
And got to I spend a month working in Alaska:

It's been an amazing, exhausting, humbling, tiring, but beautiful 3 years.
Now I'm turning in my pager and my badge because I'm done!
a million thanks and then some to my family and friends
for all the love that has carried me through these past 3 years.


Wednesday, January 1, 2014

hello, 2014

2013 is over.

i finished second year of residency.

i missed a trip to europe.

i learned to paddleboard.

i was a doctor in alaska for a month.

i ran a glorious downhill 10k through pittsburgh, with "spirit indestructible" blasting in my ipod as i crossed the finish line. two weeks later i struggled to breathe in the step-down icu.

i got an hiv fellowship at USC. i'm moving to LA this year.

life keeps spiraling forward, and i struggle to slow down to listen to the hearts of those around me. but i keep trying.

so hello, 2014.

Thursday, September 19, 2013


I've had a weird fascination with salmon swimming upstream since elementary school science. I don't know why. But seeing a salmon swim upstream was on my to-do list in Alaska.

It didn't take long. There are lots of spawning salmon in September. They swim from the ocean and into the rivers where they lay their eggs and then die. When they are dying en-mass, it smells kinda bad. 

One of my patients told me she was praying for rain so the salmon would have enough water to keep swimming. I looked out the window at the downpour. It rains A LOT here.  God must love the salmon, she smiled. 

In Native Alaskan culture, the salmon is a symbol for determination. Something about that resonates with me. This year has been an uphill swim, a fight against sickness. Yet grace continues to rain and makes the swim upstream just a big easier. Sometimes that rain is just enough energy to get through another day, other times it is a glorious downpour like a month in Alaska. 

God must love the salmon.